Friday, November 30, 2012

Perhaps, these are the signs that i have been waiting for.

And the worst part is, I don't feel anger, I just accept it with resignation.

Let's embrace arrows..

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Remind me again why am I here..

Gotten myself another red card for following others instructions.

This is really a bad bad year.

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To make this happen..

Was reading the blog of this korean lady 'Runaway Juno' who has make travelling her career. I could relate to her pretty much. The parts where she explains herself, to try to make sense of her quitting her job, going against her parents wishes, living for yourself and the courage to stop being a coward. She also talk bout how being a solo traveller felt, the inconvenience and the fun parts as well.

Yup. I am still a coward. Unwilling to let go of security, imagining that the world (at least my parents' world) will stop spinning if i am not around, waiting for someone to appear and drag me out of this silly race to earn more money. Seriously. Banking?? What am i doing here? I am not one who enjoy applying thick layers of makeup, stride in killer heels, carrying branded bags, talk about the latest manicures/pedicures designs. Sometimes, listening to my colleagues talk on about fashion just makes me zone out and imagine myself in my next travel destination, sitting by the river, sipping my cold drink, reading my book or staring into the blue skies, just chilling.

All i am interested to know is, how to make money while on the move? How to earn sufficient to substain my travelling expenses. Travel blogs? Travel and work? Work intensively for three quarters of the year and travel the remaining? What will be the best plans for me? I need to think about it and convince the heart or mind to follow through. I need to be strong and i am doing this alone. Its my time, my joy, my dreams, my happiness.

千里之行,始于足下。
When will i make my first step? Someday, oneday, when i am ready, when there are no strings pulling me back, i will.


Everything will be even more perfect if Darcy has a passport.

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Is this what I want?? Really want?

That night, while on the topic on love and marriage with this korean who 2hrs ago was a complete stranger, I admitted that I believe in love and is waiting for the right one to come along and get married.

After the words have left my mouth and the brain has process and understand them, I was shocked for 2 seconds. Seriously, is this what I really want? Deep down inside, the truth that has been buried deep down inside?

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Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Dar-ling -ling...

Darcy has the amazing powers of making me drop my foul mood, lousy work days and negative thoughts at the doorstep. Just the sight of his joker-like smile, sassy tail and hind-leg-stand greeting makes me forget all the unhappiness and Just smile at greet him back.

Since it's the rainy season, Daiso is selling dog raincoats and I choose the biggest for him. But it's still a size too small unless he shave all.



Day 4, 10 good seeds.


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Monday, November 26, 2012

Project G

My zinnia has spouted. Counted five on the 3rd night.


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Saturday, November 24, 2012

Saturday morning =)

Outing w D&d


My latest project..

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Friday, November 23, 2012

Mutual respect.

你有你的想法,我有我的感受 。
如你不顾虑到我的感受就别盼望我去了解你的想法。

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Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Randomness..

If I leave, will you join me??

我:如果我到国外居住,你们ok吗?
爸爸:你去了更好,我可以把你的房间租出去。

I take this as a yes.
一个石头放下了。

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Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Me =D

Travelling alone always let me discover something new about myself.

This time round, I realised that I can be rather stubborn/persistent about going upslope. All along I thought I detest climbing but this trip I found out that I don't give up as easily as I thought I will.

Many times while climbing up, my mind starts telling the body it's OK to give up, turn and descent. The body persists on slowly, step by step. The mind started giving excuses that it's not worth the effort, Or it's running late and it's alright to Just give up but the body refuse to turn it's head and instead Just proceed on until I have reach the destination.

Now I know, by myself I can suceed. And my greatest enemy is myself. I Just need to overcome me.

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Monday, November 19, 2012

Beautiful morning..

Heavy rain when I woke up, drizzling when I step out. 'A thousand years ' when I tune in to radio. Meeting one old friend across the causeway.

I-pu-da!!

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Saturday, November 17, 2012

Friday, November 16, 2012

Kns

Over the years I have booked movie tickets for the wrong dates, turn up for bike lessons on the wrong dates and now I have broke my record.

I book the wrong air ticket. Instead of BKk-SIN I bought SIN -BKK!!!

WELL DONE MISS Wong!

Damn! How can I undo this?

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2hrs tourist

I like the location of my office. Far from the lunch crowd and near to many tourist attractions.

Sometimes during my lunch break, I will escape to the nearby Esplanade which is a 5mins stroll away. Get some lunch then walk to the river and enjoy the views, breeze and shade.

It's surprisingly quiet overhere. Other than the occasional tourists there aren't much disturbance. A nice place to forget the busy life and Just pretend I'm a tourist.

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Monday, November 12, 2012

I think..

True love is when you fall in love with the same person over and over again.

True friends are those whose paths you stray from over and over and yet still end up walking together.

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Sunday, November 11, 2012

My lazy Sunday..

Woken up by Darcy 's pleads to be let out at 10am, make myself a cup of latte and laze infront of the tv.

Follow dad n Darcy to waterfront park for a short walk. Enjoyed the breeze, the sun and the view.


Dad dropped me at the pool at 12pm where I had a leisure swim in an empty pool. Yummy..

Walked back and ordered a favorite drink, teh-cino pengz.


Reach home and laze beside the dog.


Simple bliss!!

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Saturday, November 10, 2012

12th lesson


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This girl (aka me)

Some girls when craving for choco desserts at night will find someone to drive them to some open till late restaurant for satisfaction.

This girl will look up recipes and tailor to her baking products and bake to her heart content. (Because she dun have the someone. =[ )

Let me present my chocolate souffle..
(http://www.marthastewart.com/868486/chocolate-souffle)



Just wondering..
Will you think of me when you come upon tiramisu??

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Friday, November 09, 2012

Why not? Yes, why not?

Live in the moment, for the moment.

Some little reads..
http://m.wikihow.com/Live-in-the-Moment

http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/living-in-the-moment/

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Tuesday, November 06, 2012

Me, myself and I

My first real trip abroad alone was last year Oct. I had been contemplating for a while if i should book the flight to Kunming. The usual travel khakis were not interested in this part of China and i was not keen on going with tour groups and i was rather reluctant on the idea of finding travel mates and compromising the travel dates, habits etc etc. Not forgetting the final blow, my family. It was unhappy times hence i book my airticks to Kunming while still in Amed, Bali. I never look back then.

The second trip alone was to Mui Ne in Vietnam this May. I have too much leave and hence alone until joined by one of the travel khakis in HCMC. This was purely a NUA.BY.THE.BEACH kinda trip and hence in Korea, when people asked me if i often travel alone, my replied was 'No, This is only the second time i did it.'

The third trip travelling alone was to South Korea. Over the past 5 years, S.Korea has fast become one of the top few travel destinations for SGeans. We like to go there to wear their traditional costumes and take pictures, make kimchi and take pictures, go teddy bear museums and take pictures and most importantly, shop till 5am and bring home loads of facial products. This is the SOP. It seems like almost EVERYONE has been to S.Korea.  Those who have not been there either are not financially stable yet or does not like the culture/food. As a result, i didnt bother asking many friends if they are interested in 2 weeks in South Korea. I monitored the airtick and once i got a reasonable price, i book my airticks. Actually, to be honest, one of the determining factor (while i was still deciding if i SHOULD go S.K) was the dragon boat trainings. I remember that instance while paddling like there is no tomorrow i started asking myself what the **** am i doing here, doing this for? I deserve a damn good holiday. The air ticks was booked within the next 2 days. Hence ANNEOHASEYO!!!

Now that i have been to China (the country where there are a lot of negative feedback's from our ppl) and South Korea (where there are no subtitles in real life) ALONE and survive to tell the tales and enjoy to the max, i did not hesitate at all when booking my Laos ticket, alone. I did my normal Quality Control checks and before i know it, im entering the PIN code for my CC on Air Asia.

Now, my problem is to find the best way to reach KL LCCT at 5.35-6.50am on a Sunday. Should i take the last plane to KL LCCT, reach at 12.50am and spend 5hours in KL LCCT (Note: Its LCCT NOT KLIA!!) staring into space or take the night coach departing SG at 11.59pm and targeting to reach LCCT at 6.30am assuming smooth trafic and spending the last 1.5 hours of the bus ride wondering if i will miss my flight or is there any coach departing from JB and reaching KL Sentral at 4am for me to catch the bus to LCCT. Sigh.. All these for my RM107 one way air tick from KL to Vientiane.

Nope. Not complaining. Im a CHEAP traveller and i like CHEAP deals and i absolutely LOVE the inconveniences that are tagged to these CHEAP prices!!

After settling the journey to LCCT, i need to book the airticks from Luang Prabang to Bangkok and the leg from BKK to SIN. Right. No trouble at all. After all, i devote my life to monitoring air ticket prices fluctuation.

The joy of travelling alone, noone to ask you why the hell are you doing this and try to talk you out of it. One day, that day, maybe i will regret it but now, it seems like the right thing to do. And since im already doing it, i will just hang in there and get it over and done with. Its my life!  
=P

Monday, November 05, 2012

Sinking in..

I
Will
Be
Spending
5hrs
In
KL LCCT

ALONE.


Why is there a need to keep assuring myself that I'm not crazy.

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Sunday, November 04, 2012

想知道。。

你一个人散步时会不会想起我 ?

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Thursday, November 01, 2012

Why I like to travel?

When I first know that I will not have a job soon, one of my first few thoughts were 'shit, my trips!'

Why is travelling more like a necessity instead of a luxury to me? Why?

To me, travelling is not about just going to the touristy places, snap some pictures or a lot, buy back some souvenirs or staying in posh hotels/resorts.

To me, travelling is about experiencing new experiences. To feel different feelings. To devour different tastes. To understand (at least try to) their cultures, people, thinking. All these are free and priceless. Hence my trip can be cheap.

I miss all seasons that are not offered in sing. I miss the cold winds which freezes my thoughts and make it impossible for me to reply. I miss being the person I want to be without raised eyebrows. I miss having an open heart and an open mind to welcome new suggestions.

These are just the few bits and pieces of why I travel.

MTR (monents to remember)
While walking to buy ramen for supper at Sokcho,
He said: Our highschool students are very scary. Do you have bullies in your high school?
Me: Bullies, highschool? Ahhhhh...(Korean way of expressing that they understand) *a gust of cold wind*
*pause* He waits for me to reply
*pause* He look at me wondering if i understand what he had just say.
Me: Wait. It's too cold. I'll reply later.
He stare at me in disbelief because to him, it's not cold and the night before I was still saying that I hope it will snow.

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