Boy, if I ask you out for a date today, you cannot reject.
But boy, where the hell are you?!
But boy, where the hell are you?!
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Wednesday, February 29, 2012
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秤子啊!
今天又被tag了。所以说，我其实还蛮秤子的!
其实，真正的天秤座并没有你们想象中的和蔼可亲也没有你们所见到的开朗，热情
从冷若冰箱的脸变得和蔼可亲是因为秤子们知道不先主动， 就不会得到任何的朋友.因此，秤子学会了社交要别人对自己好，就先对别人好.所以，本来任性，情绪化的天秤为此而忍耐为此而配合.想得到的，只是别人得一句称赞， 一个问好.
常常陷入左右为难的困境也是因为朋友的一句怀疑一句不爽. 为了朋友，而改变自己的原则对秤子而言，也是家常便饭一顿.改变对秤子而言，是多么痛苦的一件事. 但，为了朋友，我们都算了.
朋友的出卖，为难就算多么的不爽，我们也只懂得忍. 但到头来，得到的却是一次又一次的伤害
秤子们， 你们到底为了什么要忍耐别人？为了别人而改变自己？其实，这真的是不值得. 为何就不对自己好点妮？
爱情.天秤都是花心的一群？ 不是的天秤一点都不花心. 只是有时真的不忍心拒绝别人. 若拒绝了，可能朋友都没得作. 接受了，勉强也是没幸福的
结论？能拖就拖. 拖久了就便暧昧了.
很多人误会了天秤觉得暧昧=一起了但对天秤而言，这是两个不一样的事但在一传十，十传百的时候天秤水洗不清了
为什么要为难我们天秤？不幸的是天秤注重声誉声誉受损，当然少不了悲伤一番又是我们做错事了吗？
当真地爱上了也只是淡淡的开始淡淡的结束
天秤从不会死缠烂打.被甩了只能独自自我疗伤被甩的原因，不知.做错了什么事？不知.
什么都不知道有时还蛮恨自己为什么什么都不问就任由全部东西淡淡地离开
天秤很容易喜欢上一个人.想放真心去爱但往往会得到反效果. 对方的一次，再次的冷淡我们绝望了只需要一次，我们就会把心拿回来别怪天秤。
我们，都是害怕伤害的一群没安全感的一群
我们要得很简单只需要一个温暖的拥抱，陪伴.天秤将永属于你
请别忽略了我们也是需要被疼，需要被呵护的一群.别忽略了天秤得悲伤.别以为只有天秤伤害别人，天秤在伤害你之前,心已被你插的千苍白孔
其实，真正的天秤座并没有你们想象中的和蔼可亲也没有你们所见到的开朗，热情
从冷若冰箱的脸变得和蔼可亲是因为秤子们知道不先主动， 就不会得到任何的朋友.因此，秤子学会了社交要别人对自己好，就先对别人好.所以，本来任性，情绪化的天秤为此而忍耐为此而配合.想得到的，只是别人得一句称赞， 一个问好.
常常陷入左右为难的困境也是因为朋友的一句怀疑一句不爽. 为了朋友，而改变自己的原则对秤子而言，也是家常便饭一顿.改变对秤子而言，是多么痛苦的一件事. 但，为了朋友，我们都算了.
朋友的出卖，为难就算多么的不爽，我们也只懂得忍. 但到头来，得到的却是一次又一次的伤害
秤子们， 你们到底为了什么要忍耐别人？为了别人而改变自己？其实，这真的是不值得. 为何就不对自己好点妮？
爱情.天秤都是花心的一群？ 不是的天秤一点都不花心. 只是有时真的不忍心拒绝别人. 若拒绝了，可能朋友都没得作. 接受了，勉强也是没幸福的
结论？能拖就拖. 拖久了就便暧昧了.
很多人误会了天秤觉得暧昧=一起了但对天秤而言，这是两个不一样的事但在一传十，十传百的时候天秤水洗不清了
为什么要为难我们天秤？不幸的是天秤注重声誉声誉受损，当然少不了悲伤一番又是我们做错事了吗？
当真地爱上了也只是淡淡的开始淡淡的结束
天秤从不会死缠烂打.被甩了只能独自自我疗伤被甩的原因，不知.做错了什么事？不知.
什么都不知道有时还蛮恨自己为什么什么都不问就任由全部东西淡淡地离开
天秤很容易喜欢上一个人.想放真心去爱但往往会得到反效果. 对方的一次，再次的冷淡我们绝望了只需要一次，我们就会把心拿回来别怪天秤。
我们，都是害怕伤害的一群没安全感的一群
我们要得很简单只需要一个温暖的拥抱，陪伴.天秤将永属于你
请别忽略了我们也是需要被疼，需要被呵护的一群.别忽略了天秤得悲伤.别以为只有天秤伤害别人，天秤在伤害你之前,心已被你插的千苍白孔
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身为秤子的我
When I first read this half a year ago, I got a slight wake up call. This is me. This is also me which I do not like as much. I do not want to be like this, hence I told myself to watch it and change. I do not want to be a hypocrite to myself anymore. I want to value myself more than others and I want to stop thinking for others and how they will feel. I want to be selfish and think just for myself. I want to stop telling people I'm okay when I'm actually not after what they have done to hurt me.
This was also what pushes me to my yunnan trip, to live for myself only. This taught me to say no and stand firm. This let me know who I think my real friends are.
If you have seen me throw tantrum, act unreasonable, sleepy/lazy, you are an old friend of mine. If I have been crude,mean and difficult to you and still stay friends with you, your someone who matters still. If I had scream(screaming and being fierce are 2 different matters) at you, your on the top of my list(other than my parents and Darcy, is there anyone else?). If your non of the above, we are just 2 human on this planet.
This is the whole story (copied from fb)..
天秤座的人心地善良、有古道熱腸、仁愛之心、富同情心而看重感情，處事力求公正與中庸，不願偏激，誠實溫和，是個理想主義者。
生性浪漫、有自我犧牲的傾向個性、堅強聰明、進取具有靈活而好質問的腦子常有非凡的構想。
天秤很容易受傷，很容易自卑，很容易滿足，很容易愛上一個人，很容易流淚，很容易……但是很難走出悲傷，很難忘記一個人，很難背叛友情和愛情，很難有心機，很難拒絕，很難對得起自己。
天秤寧願犧牲自己的利益都會保全他人的利益天秤真的值得深交。
追求完美的秤子一直在等一份不帶瑕疵的愛，秤子不會隨便愛，可一旦愛了便奮不顧身。
單身的秤子執著堅持寧缺毋濫，很多人以為他高要求，其實只有枰子知道他只想找對感覺。
一旦拍拖了傻傻的秤子便會掏心掏肺付出，無怨無悔去愛。
秤子是個敏感脆弱的星座，拍拖時對方就是他們的整個世界。
天秤有時候心裡會莫名的難受，不知為了什麼有時候同周圍的人說說笑笑，卻覺得異常寂寞和孤獨，靜靜的看著窗外會覺得自己是個容易被遺忘的人.
有時候，冷眼看著身邊的人吵吵鬧鬧。
有時候，覺得這個世界真的很假很虛偽，真想就從這個世界上消失。
別以為善於交際的天秤擁有非常好的脾氣那就大錯特錯了。
如果他從來沒有對一個人大發脾氣，那麼只能說明一點他沒有把這個人當作真正的朋友，證明此人還沒有真正的走進他的內心深處，至少尚還有一絲距離。
一般天秤座的人，在自己十分親近的人面前都會比較放鬆，但也容易發脾氣。
天秤給人的感覺永遠是氣質優雅，好像不會生氣，總是很溫和的態度對誰都很好的。
其實私底下也只會在很親近的人面前表現出懶散的無理取鬧的樣子。
秤子都是比較理性的，很少會感情用事，在衡量中會給人猶豫不定的感覺。
如果給她一點時間那絕對的會很乾脆利落。
天秤座的人心中總是放著一桿平衡的秤，不喜歡平靜的生活突然被打破，有著協調愛好和平的性格。
天秤的守護星是維納斯，對於美與和諧有著自己的喜好和唯美的見解。
天秤天生外形優雅舉止溫柔大方，無論男生女生都有難能可貴的高雅品質，身上總是會蘊藏著藝術的才華和靈感。
xx - what I can relates to.
This was also what pushes me to my yunnan trip, to live for myself only. This taught me to say no and stand firm. This let me know who I think my real friends are.
If you have seen me throw tantrum, act unreasonable, sleepy/lazy, you are an old friend of mine. If I have been crude,mean and difficult to you and still stay friends with you, your someone who matters still. If I had scream(screaming and being fierce are 2 different matters) at you, your on the top of my list(other than my parents and Darcy, is there anyone else?). If your non of the above, we are just 2 human on this planet.
This is the whole story (copied from fb)..
天秤座的人心地善良、有古道熱腸、仁愛之心、富同情心而看重感情，處事力求公正與中庸，不願偏激，誠實溫和，是個理想主義者。
生性浪漫、有自我犧牲的傾向個性、堅強聰明、進取具有靈活而好質問的腦子常有非凡的構想。
天秤很容易受傷，很容易自卑，很容易滿足，很容易愛上一個人，很容易流淚，很容易……但是很難走出悲傷，很難忘記一個人，很難背叛友情和愛情，很難有心機，很難拒絕，很難對得起自己。
天秤寧願犧牲自己的利益都會保全他人的利益天秤真的值得深交。
追求完美的秤子一直在等一份不帶瑕疵的愛，秤子不會隨便愛，可一旦愛了便奮不顧身。
單身的秤子執著堅持寧缺毋濫，很多人以為他高要求，其實只有枰子知道他只想找對感覺。
一旦拍拖了傻傻的秤子便會掏心掏肺付出，無怨無悔去愛。
秤子是個敏感脆弱的星座，拍拖時對方就是他們的整個世界。
天秤有時候心裡會莫名的難受，不知為了什麼有時候同周圍的人說說笑笑，卻覺得異常寂寞和孤獨，靜靜的看著窗外會覺得自己是個容易被遺忘的人.
有時候，冷眼看著身邊的人吵吵鬧鬧。
有時候，覺得這個世界真的很假很虛偽，真想就從這個世界上消失。
別以為善於交際的天秤擁有非常好的脾氣那就大錯特錯了。
如果他從來沒有對一個人大發脾氣，那麼只能說明一點他沒有把這個人當作真正的朋友，證明此人還沒有真正的走進他的內心深處，至少尚還有一絲距離。
一般天秤座的人，在自己十分親近的人面前都會比較放鬆，但也容易發脾氣。
天秤給人的感覺永遠是氣質優雅，好像不會生氣，總是很溫和的態度對誰都很好的。
其實私底下也只會在很親近的人面前表現出懶散的無理取鬧的樣子。
秤子都是比較理性的，很少會感情用事，在衡量中會給人猶豫不定的感覺。
如果給她一點時間那絕對的會很乾脆利落。
天秤座的人心中總是放著一桿平衡的秤，不喜歡平靜的生活突然被打破，有著協調愛好和平的性格。
天秤的守護星是維納斯，對於美與和諧有著自己的喜好和唯美的見解。
天秤天生外形優雅舉止溫柔大方，無論男生女生都有難能可貴的高雅品質，身上總是會蘊藏著藝術的才華和靈感。
xx - what I can relates to.
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Tuesday, February 21, 2012
Taxi uncles..
Have I mentioned that I enjoyed speaking with the taxi uncles?
They have a great source of information within them and what you can get off them is not like anything you can read off the newspaper.
Tonight, the topic was on FT. Normally, FT will be referring to those from North of SG aka China but today, we touch on those from NE of SG aka philippines and NW of SG aka India.
Because the uncles have first hand experience with them, they are in a better position to judge and comment. The uncle tonight seems like a rather unbiased and soft spoken man but when it comes to those from the service line and IT field, he sure gets agitated.
Let's just hope that what he hopes for come true.
But when that happens, who will fill up the vacancies?
The uncle also commented that its very unfair for our generation and those younger. We have to study so hard to get a degree and yet it will still be difficult to find a job after that. Then we are caught in the rat race to see who can have a better standard of living.
Our parents and grandparents all contributed to the development of Singapore, hoping for a better life for their children. They labour hard and now we have to study hard. At the end of the day, is that piece of paper really that important? Are we only able to get those information/knowledge if we attend university?
Luxury items. Do we really need that Mazda 3 when a vios can do the same job at a lower cost. Is the LV bag necessary to raise your status when a bag one-tenth the value can hold all the items you want and as long as you look and act decent, you can portray any status you want.
Although I have to admit that several times I toyed with the idea of getting a few hundred dollars bag but at the end of the day, that airtick always got my money.
I do travel too much for my own good, but other than my nz trip 3 yrs back, all my other trips cost less than 2k each. I travel not to pamper myself (i do not need to cause my bdrm is good enough) but to see and experience something different. Something I cannot see/do/feel in my BAU life. These are the things that money can't buy, these are what they call priceless, these are usually the best things in life that is free.
They have a great source of information within them and what you can get off them is not like anything you can read off the newspaper.
Tonight, the topic was on FT. Normally, FT will be referring to those from North of SG aka China but today, we touch on those from NE of SG aka philippines and NW of SG aka India.
Because the uncles have first hand experience with them, they are in a better position to judge and comment. The uncle tonight seems like a rather unbiased and soft spoken man but when it comes to those from the service line and IT field, he sure gets agitated.
Let's just hope that what he hopes for come true.
But when that happens, who will fill up the vacancies?
The uncle also commented that its very unfair for our generation and those younger. We have to study so hard to get a degree and yet it will still be difficult to find a job after that. Then we are caught in the rat race to see who can have a better standard of living.
Our parents and grandparents all contributed to the development of Singapore, hoping for a better life for their children. They labour hard and now we have to study hard. At the end of the day, is that piece of paper really that important? Are we only able to get those information/knowledge if we attend university?
Luxury items. Do we really need that Mazda 3 when a vios can do the same job at a lower cost. Is the LV bag necessary to raise your status when a bag one-tenth the value can hold all the items you want and as long as you look and act decent, you can portray any status you want.
Although I have to admit that several times I toyed with the idea of getting a few hundred dollars bag but at the end of the day, that airtick always got my money.
I do travel too much for my own good, but other than my nz trip 3 yrs back, all my other trips cost less than 2k each. I travel not to pamper myself (i do not need to cause my bdrm is good enough) but to see and experience something different. Something I cannot see/do/feel in my BAU life. These are the things that money can't buy, these are what they call priceless, these are usually the best things in life that is free.
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Saturday, February 11, 2012
Lactose intolerance
Defn: The inability to digest lactose (a type of sugar found in milk and dairy pdts)
Who can gets it: From infants to adults. It doesn't mean that if you do not have it when you were young, you will not get it when you grow up. A lot of ppl get it in their MID twenties. Hence I'm pretty sure I'm "suffering" from LT which results in LS when I consume milk pdts.
In the doctor's room this afternoon, I asked her what can be done. She said I need to find out what is my max milk consumption limit, which brand of ice cream works for me, and if there's a die-also-must-have need for carbonara, get enzymes pills from the pharmacy to take with food.
All along, I have classisfied milk as a staple food, I have take for granted the ease of digesting lactose. I have never though that I will be allergic to milk.
Now, I can't drink my beloved milk coffee, unless its make with soy milk. I cannot indulge in ice cream, I need to monitor how much chocolate I put into my mouth. To think pizza is my all time low comfort food. Now I need to have second thoughts on what I'm putting into my mouth. Maybe I will need to start examine all the ingredients used at the back of the cover.
On the bright side, I have found my medicine for constipation. All I need is a cup of coffee and 12hrs at home. Maybe lesser diary pdt = weight loss.
Erm.. did I hear no bubble milk tea..... oh dear...
To think I already have low iron count, now will I be suffering from insufficient calcium in the body. Ohh. I can hear my bones breaking..... *crack* and I can't even drink anlene. Oh dear dear...
There goes my milk with tea. Now I really have to drink tea with a dash of milk instead of milk with a dash of tea.
Be thankful that I can still eat, be thankful that I can still walk. Be thankful that I still have the strength to participate in all those activities that I enjoy. Just be thankful.
Maybe I'm over reacting, panoroid to the power of infinity. Maybe I'm just suffering from too much stress hence disrupting the bowel system, maybe its just some virus that will clear soon. Just maybe..
Craving for a good cup of latte.
Who can gets it: From infants to adults. It doesn't mean that if you do not have it when you were young, you will not get it when you grow up. A lot of ppl get it in their MID twenties. Hence I'm pretty sure I'm "suffering" from LT which results in LS when I consume milk pdts.
In the doctor's room this afternoon, I asked her what can be done. She said I need to find out what is my max milk consumption limit, which brand of ice cream works for me, and if there's a die-also-must-have need for carbonara, get enzymes pills from the pharmacy to take with food.
All along, I have classisfied milk as a staple food, I have take for granted the ease of digesting lactose. I have never though that I will be allergic to milk.
Now, I can't drink my beloved milk coffee, unless its make with soy milk. I cannot indulge in ice cream, I need to monitor how much chocolate I put into my mouth. To think pizza is my all time low comfort food. Now I need to have second thoughts on what I'm putting into my mouth. Maybe I will need to start examine all the ingredients used at the back of the cover.
On the bright side, I have found my medicine for constipation. All I need is a cup of coffee and 12hrs at home. Maybe lesser diary pdt = weight loss.
Erm.. did I hear no bubble milk tea..... oh dear...
To think I already have low iron count, now will I be suffering from insufficient calcium in the body. Ohh. I can hear my bones breaking..... *crack* and I can't even drink anlene. Oh dear dear...
There goes my milk with tea. Now I really have to drink tea with a dash of milk instead of milk with a dash of tea.
Be thankful that I can still eat, be thankful that I can still walk. Be thankful that I still have the strength to participate in all those activities that I enjoy. Just be thankful.
Maybe I'm over reacting, panoroid to the power of infinity. Maybe I'm just suffering from too much stress hence disrupting the bowel system, maybe its just some virus that will clear soon. Just maybe..
Craving for a good cup of latte.
posted from Bloggeroid
Thursday, February 09, 2012
Monday, February 06, 2012
Pig in the year of dragon
Since the first day of this dragon year I have been suffering from all kind of illness. ( and its only 2 weeks since!) Fever, persistent cough, running nose, very bad sore throat and diarrhea.
They say that pigs will have fortune and relationship lucky stars smiling at them. But how about health? Anyone knows anything?
Or are these illness here to remind me to treasure what I have and not to take for granted what is given?
Maybe these are to make my lose weight plans come true, afterall its 心想事成。
I just hope to get well soon.
They say that pigs will have fortune and relationship lucky stars smiling at them. But how about health? Anyone knows anything?
Or are these illness here to remind me to treasure what I have and not to take for granted what is given?
Maybe these are to make my lose weight plans come true, afterall its 心想事成。
I just hope to get well soon.
posted from Bloggeroid
Just a random thought..
The days seem to have flew away right before my eyes but payday is never in sight.
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Saturday, February 04, 2012
一望无际的大海。。
Missing the big blue sea. This is my idea of a good chill out, with a bottle of ice cold beer or a glass of iced coffee or a mug of hot Earl Grey tea. Enjoyment to the max.
The cheap accomodation is simply a bonus. I wonder if the swimming pool has been built.
The cheap accomodation is simply a bonus. I wonder if the swimming pool has been built.
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Friday, February 03, 2012
Bleah-ing..
Been told that I'm aloof and cold like a glacier when I meet new people resulting in turning any new potentials away.
Really? I didn't realised that. But the thing is, how can I act all warm and bubbly to people I barely know. It will be alright if they are single but not so if they are taken because they will think that I'm trying to hit on them.
I had experiences with guy friends, ppl I already know, who tried to drop me hints that 我们只是朋友 when they are attached. Arggg... with all those previous experiences, how do you expect me to be overally nice and friendly towards ppl I have just met. I will not want a repeat telecast of the same issue over and over again.
Hence, I learn to only keep my guard low with guys who I know will not drop bombs like those. With them, I can be myself, I can disturb them and laugh with them, converse and debate with them and not have to think if Im too over or have to control my words and actions in case I'm sending the wrong msg. I can look them in the eyes and stare at them and not have to avert my glances in case they think I am deeply in love with them.
I just want to be me.
Really? I didn't realised that. But the thing is, how can I act all warm and bubbly to people I barely know. It will be alright if they are single but not so if they are taken because they will think that I'm trying to hit on them.
I had experiences with guy friends, ppl I already know, who tried to drop me hints that 我们只是朋友 when they are attached. Arggg... with all those previous experiences, how do you expect me to be overally nice and friendly towards ppl I have just met. I will not want a repeat telecast of the same issue over and over again.
Hence, I learn to only keep my guard low with guys who I know will not drop bombs like those. With them, I can be myself, I can disturb them and laugh with them, converse and debate with them and not have to think if Im too over or have to control my words and actions in case I'm sending the wrong msg. I can look them in the eyes and stare at them and not have to avert my glances in case they think I am deeply in love with them.
I just want to be me.
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Wednesday, February 01, 2012
Dun let the parents see this..
This cny I have carried a lot of infants that I normally will not even dare to come close. Being the youngest in my family and one of the youngest in my extended families, I didn't get much chance to train my baby carrying skills.
But, all thanks to the 10kg big brown eyes at home, I think I am getting pretty well trained. Also, baby talk and Darcy language is pretty similar too. Just that when playing with the kiddos, I must remember not to use too much force to get things out of the baby mouth. Dun think they know how to play tug of war yet.
But, all thanks to the 10kg big brown eyes at home, I think I am getting pretty well trained. Also, baby talk and Darcy language is pretty similar too. Just that when playing with the kiddos, I must remember not to use too much force to get things out of the baby mouth. Dun think they know how to play tug of war yet.
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